Friday, July 01, 2005

Nervous

I just read an article saying people have been fired because of what they said in their blogs. The company deemed the blogs "inappropriate" without disclosing what exactly was inappropriate about the blogs. It made me nervous enough to ask my manager her opinion. I am the type of person what likes boundaries. They are nice to have.

I'm sure my mother and I would have had less fights if my parents bothered to lay ground rules when I moved back home after college instead of their wait and see philosophy. Often I discovered I committed a sin when my parents are screaming at me making me feel like a deer looking into headlights asking what I did wrong. The biggest fight was over cleaning the house. My mother failed to understand that after working 8 hours, I do not feel like cleaning her house when I get home. My father understood perfectly. My mother learned to hire a cleaning lady. I thought the biggest problem was my mother not accepting I was a grown up, who did not have to live with her or have to do anything I didn't want to do. "Do it because I said so" does not work at age 23. She was very slow learning to ask me for help instead of her usual orders. Anyway, rules are a necessity if only to avoid future infractions. Post later, Bye!

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