Car buddy is still text messaging me. I refuse to block him since he has still has to remove his mattress from my basement so need that line of communication open. Besides, if he doesn't text me then he sends texts to other roommate friends to relay to him which upsets my roommate. I told roommate that it resembled me separating from my Mom who clung to me for dear life. I love my Mom, I care about my Mom, but I don't love her so much that she gets to control every aspect of my life. Boundaries need to be made. He said for weeks his friends was so clinging and always wanted needed to be around him. He would come into the living room where I was sitting to hang out. He would leave their room to ask if he was coming back soon which upset roommate. Can't he hang out with the home owner for a while without him? Car buddy texted his started seeing a therapist to make his relationship stronger. He said he can walk away as his therapist taught him how. Therapist also said he is autistic which would explain his emotional outbursts. He also said his grandma was out of the hospital. He wondered if roommate had autism. No, I think it is more ADHD with disorganization, lack of impulse control, and trouble focusing. I wished him luck.
Girlfriend arrived at roommate's job to be accused of stealing the missing deposit. She was so insulted being accused of the theft that she quit and walked out on her job. All her hard work just went down the drain. Roommate guessed she was getting stoned now. He confessed she had recently revealed wanting to relapse. He tried to convince he not to. She has so much to lose by relapsing. Well, she cut off all communication so he is waiting to hear from her again.
Visited sister as therpist recommended to end my social isolation. We cut out cookies from dough she made. Her husband gave her flowers. Smelled good. We caught up to each other. Nephew is doing well in college and niece is doing well at her job. When I got home I frosted my pink moscato cupcakes and a red velvet heart-shaped cake I baked yesterday to take to work. Roommate wanted to help frost the cakes. He did a good job. Everybody at work loved them. I wonder if I could sell cake mixes for extra income. I would need to do videos on a social media platform to get followers who hopefully could turn into customers. Maybe after the bankruptcy is final. Planning is in order. Roomate is happy to eat the leftovers. He loves my pink moscato cupcakes, espcially when he gets to drink a glass of leftover wine. Strange Ash Wednesday is on Valentine's Day. Oh Well.
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