Well, it was such a nice day out and have therapist appointment tomorrow to rain the rest of the week, so I decided to finally go to the beach and enjoy suntanning and swimming a couple hours after work. It's the middle of July and haven't been to the beach yet cause it keeps raining on weekends or too cold. Today I got a call at work how girlfriend said on social media she is in a new relationship when 2 days ago was their anniversary and they confessed their love to each other. He was suicidal and crying wanting to know what happened between them. She hates me and jealous of me when really should be jealous of someone else. He wants me to know this is all my fault from threatening to kick them out for not having jobs for so long. After work I drive over to where she lives with her family. He had her stuff packed up as an excuse to talk to her. Then decided to leave it at the house so she has to come and get her stuff back. Half way there, I hit a broken piece of concrete on the highway. I swerved to avoid it and it struck the inside of the tire. Had to call my brother in Michigan how to use the jack that came with the donute tire in the trunk, it's a square piece of metal. He said to look at the manual and saw a picture so we were ok. Neither of us changed a tire before. Nicely one end of jack pumper piece fit the tire bolts. It's a donut tire so turned back and went home. Old tire in trunk. Roommate said he prayed all day for a sign from God and took this event as a sign not to talk to girlfriend. He felt happier once he changed the tire. An old flame said she would visit him. Roommate reached out to anyone to talk to. She blocked him and everyone he knows.
When got home, he called her on my phone to leave a voice-mail. He discovered her online wallet hadn't block him so he sent her a dollar to message her. She answered with a ❤. He asked what that meant. I thought maybe her family pressured her to block him and break up with him. The new relationship could be them trying to make him leave. She is a basketcase. I explained she is not strong like me. That heart was her true feelings. She didn't block him after sending the heart. I hear him crying downstairs. Poor dear. He has been trying so hard to get a job and not be a burden on me, then this happens. I told him to focus on himself and give her space cause they have been video chatting practically every day. Hopefully he takes my advice. He is holding her stuff hostage hoping she will come get it. He can't figure out what he did wrong. She said in a post that she knows something, but who knows what. He said he analyzed her behavior to conclude this wasn't her, it must be her family influence, and sent a message saying he will give her space to work on herself and maybe reconnect in the future. He got some booze cause it is more than he can take and suicidal again. I told him not to wake me up again tonight like this weekend when he woke up me up at 3 :45 AM asking for sex then collapsed on the hallway floor crying over the rejection when he just wants to love someone and girlfriend isn't here. Sunday afternoon he said he woke up with no pants on and broken glass on the floor. He completely blacked out and has scrapes on his leg. I heard glass breaking and him crashing around going downstairs so maybe he scraped his no pants legs on the carpet on the stairs. He said he never blacked out before, some fuzzy memory returned later and was embarrassed apologizing for hours. He promised not to wake me up again. He swore no more alcohol after Saturday night black out, but that no longer applies when he is devastated from his girlfriend blocking him. Old flame has to get a babysitter so coming by tomorrow.
Don't know what God's plans are, but my one advisor is trying to get back from a trip. Supposed to come back Sunday then flight canceled due to storms so coming back Monday night. Well that is canceled now. Hopefully he can get back Tuesday. Should have just rented a car and would have been back by now.
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