Well today, I tell car buddy that he was welcome to stay here until he is figures out his next move. Roommate complained his friends tell him that I give them the "stink eye" so I felt a need to say something. Hours later, another fight breaks out and car buddy is being kicked out again. Car buddy wants all his gifts back and asks me to to call the police when roommate threatens to throw him out the window if he doesn't stop raising his voice. They constantly drag me into the argument. Yeah, you both interrupt each other trying to repond to the other accusations. I talk it over with roommate. I see a cycle of abuse where the buddy buys beer, they play video games, and they are happy and drunk. Then the tension builds and another fight breaks and buddy is asked to leave again. Then he is let back in the house until the next fight. Roommate wants to help him but he has his own issues to deal with. I tell him they need stop trying to help each other and just work on themselves. I am dealing with my own problems too.
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