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Wednesday, February 07, 2024

Therapist Day again

Had an interesting session today with the therapist. Had a drama with getting car fixed and deductible will wipe out my IRA completely. I decided to take pictures and get an estimate from adjustor that way. I got the estimate from the car insurance today. I need to save for the deductible part. I need new glasses and get teeth cleaned since I got my insurance back. I went to church with brother and sister-in-law and next time will join their Bible Study. He was unhappy roommate not only came home but brought buddy plus buddy's 2 cats to live in my house without asking if that was alright with me. Cats will be eating my cat food and using my litterbox. I did tell buddy he was welcome to stay until he figures out his next move. After being kicked out last night, buddy was back in the house sleeping in the guest room this morning. He was unhappy about all their fights and agrees buddy needs to go. He said I need to put up boundaries with my roommate by charging him for rides, friend needs a time limit to leave and so does roommate, and roommate plus buddy to help around the house, clean the litterboxes, and pay for groceries. They need to stop drinking alcohol and smoking drugs in my house and yard and they need to apply to 3 jobs a day. Yeah, this conversation he made me write down into my phone is not happening. I am not calling the police on them and sending roommate to jail while on probation when I am trying to keep him out of jail and ruining his future. I'm not throwing roommate out into the street. I can't charge for rides when he has no money. He needs to work to pay off his court fines or go to jail so he is motivated to get a job. If I forbid drugs or alcohol, he will just hide them from me.

All was quiet before going to work. They were doing food delivery and then went into their separate rooms. I went to work.

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