Pages

Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Drama I Don't Need

Girlfriend finally blocked him on online wallet but didn't send back the $7 he sent to pass on messages. Why send a heart then block him? I think it's her family trying to push him out. He is devastated. I told him whether she talks to him again or not, he will be ok and needs to focus on himself. He hates being a burden on me and trying to get a job. Old flame never comes over and then blocks him so he is done with her. She is a single mother with 4 kids working at a fast food place and living in an apartment. Good for her now that her old boyfriend who was violent is out of the picture.

Got an interview tomorrow for fast food place girlfriend worked for. He is desperate. Even called an old job to get rehired. He thinks going by past texts from her before concluding she blocked him so she's not a distraction and he will focus on getting a job.

Well girlfriend finally stopped blocking roommate to explain she seeing someone more gentler and still wants to be friends. She said he can keep stuff. He is focused on his job interview tomorrow. He hates fast food but can't get factory work. At least he has an answer.

Had my therapy session tonight. I'm hurt. Blew out a tire yesterday and roommate put on the donut tire (which neither of us done before and needed to look at the manual). Then today before work, I go to the mechanic I've used for years to drop off the car to replace the tire and they take me to work that is 10 minutes away. Looked at tire and can't repair it. Also the rim is bent so might need to replace that. Mechanic looked at my other tires and said they were worn down to need replaced too. Looked at the year on tire and it was 2019 when it was a 2020 I bought in 2021 with 4000 miles on it. Plus alignment and suspension check. Go to work and advisors question if I really needed all 4 replaced when my mileage was 29,800. Tires must have been cheap or used tires to wear down that much. I checked online and tires need replaced 40,000 miles or 6 years. I don't know if I needed new tires or completely taken advantage of. I might need to check for 2nd opinions before expensive repairs beyond what I ask for. Therapist thinks I need to be more assertive in saying NO. And it's my my Mom's birthday. I didn't need this drama when already hurting.

No comments:

Post a Comment