RIP Cousin Tammy

Cousin Tammy died last night. Called my Mom to make sure she knew. I read it on the caring bridge website they had set up. My sister beat me to it. But she neglected the burial part so shared that. She wanted to be cremeted and interred at the family cabin by the lake. Whether that means buried, ashes spread on the grass, or sit in an urn on the fireplace mantle is unclear, but she won't be in a cemetery. They plan a service next spring at the cabin. So sad. Her poor husband is all alone with 2 girls, one an infant, so her parents are staying a while to help out during this adjustment period.

I had a strange dream about Tammy last night as I laid in bed. She was smiling at me surrounded by clouds wearing bright white robes. She whispered a soft good-bye and disappeared. I had the same dream the night before she died too.

Later.