I think we are through

Romeo doens't think he will get the assisstant manager job cause there are 2 other people applying with much more manager experience than him. So much for fate.

Then he writes a long email detailing the pros and cons of our relationship deciding our distance in miles is too great. He complained I didn't go to his Boy Scout picnic and didn't jump at the chance to meet his grandparents. He continued with his waiting for me to convert to his ideas in religion and homophobia, and it wasn't happening. He interpreted my comment once not feeling ready to have children as I had no confidence in caring for an infant. He declared he was moving too fast in giving me that promise ring and his lack of experience cause the rushing. He said I could keep it as a symbol of our friendship. He just wants to be friends now. He says we live and learn and then move on. He believes I hate camping and he loves it. He said if he moved to Des Moines he would look me up and say hello.

Um, do you think this break up has something to do with his job or pessimism of not getting a better one?

I set him straight explaining I babysit my niece and very confident I can care for an infant, just don't wish to do it by myself. And I promised my sister to babysit when she is in China so I am not moving anywhere soon cause I'm not screwing my sister cause he suddenly doesn't want to move. I also explained there are steps to commitment he was skipping with getting that promise ring. Kissing, hugging, snuggling, sleepovers, often living together, usually occur before buying a promise ring and committing. I do love camping since childhood, though whe traveling I prefer hotels. I explained a boy scout picnic is not a place to take a girlfriend, how is that fun for the girlfriend? Say if we had a son who was in the boys scouts, I would have no problem. I told him that if he still wanted to end our relationship, then be that way and contact me when he makes up his mind what he wants. Asshole. Post later. Bye!